SYSTEM 7: The Neurodivergent Marriage System

Reduce conflict, improve communication, and build a stronger partnership without expecting either person to be perfect. Designed specifically for the realities of neurodivergent relationships and mental load challenges.

Includes:

• Neurodivergent Marriage Survival Guide
• Communication Scripts
• Mental Load Conversation Toolkit
• Overstimulation Communication Scripts
• Shutdown vs Avoidance Explainer
• Division of Labor Reset
• Conflict Repair Scripts
• What Support Actually Helps Me Worksheet
• Communicate Without Reacting Guide
• Own Your Side Without Taking All the Blame Worksheet
• Your Island / My Island Perspective Map
• Safety Before Solutions Conversation Guide
• Hard Conversation Prep Sheet
• Connection Goal for This Conversation Worksheet
• Connection Builders vs Connection Breakers Checklist
• Repair & Reconnect After Disconnection Script
• Shared Capacity Agreement
• Marriage 2.0 Reset Plan
• What I Can Control, Influence, or Let Go Worksheet
• Shared Support & Delegation Plan
• Shared Capacity Planning
• Marriage Operating Agreement
• Weekly Capacity Check In
• Household CEO Meeting